“You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view… until you climb into his skin and walk around in it.” – Harper Lee
Empathy is the ability to recognize and share in the feelings of another—to see someone as human even when you disagree with them.
There was a time when disagreement didn’t automatically mean dehumanization. You could argue ideas and still recognize the person across from you as fully human. Somewhere along the way, that line faded.
Today, many of us are no longer simply Americans or even people. We are labels. Right. Left. Red. Blue. And once those labels take over, empathy seems to disappear.
Political polarization hasn’t just divided opinions; it has fractured our sense of shared humanity. The troubling shift isn’t disagreement, it’s how easily we treat the “other side” as undeserving of compassion, dignity, or even life itself. When empathy becomes conditional, it ceases to be empathy at all.
This isn’t a new tactic. History is filled with examples of people divided by fear and ideology. What’s unsettling is realizing how easily we believed ourselves immune to it.
Social media rewards outrage over understanding and certainty over humility. Add constant crisis, stress, and fear, and we become a society trained to choose sides instead of listening.
Yet politics is not identity. Ideology is not humanity. And disagreement is not permission for cruelty.
If there is a path forward, it begins with an essential truth that many have forgotten: Before we are Right or Left, we are human. Before we are voters, we are neighbors. And before we are ideologies, we are fragile, complicated beings trying to make sense of the world.
Empathy does not require agreement.
It only requires remembering the humanity in the person across from us.
Ronaldo Gilley 